So guess what I did today? I got a babysitter for my kids and went and got myself a massage. And guess what? The boys did just fine and I feel great!
Moral: me time is much needed so just bite the bullet and get your kid(s) a sitter and go do something for yourself. Seriously, a mommy who feels good is a happy mommy and happy mommies have energy to play on the ground with kiddos all day long.